What Games Can I Play with a Friend Online

Kids 8–12 · Tips · Updated October 1, 2026 · LearnLife Editorial

What kinds of online games are good for kids 8-12 to play with friends?

Kids aged 8–12 enjoy games that are fun, easy to understand, and let them work together or compete in a friendly way. Examples include cooperative adventure games where players solve puzzles together or games where players build worlds using blocks or creativity tools. Look for games that have simple controls and positive messages, like teamwork, kindness, and creativity. Avoid games with violence or unknown chat features. Some popular choices include sandbox building games, trivia quizzes, and non-violent racing games.

When choosing a game, check if the game offers options to play only with friends, so strangers cannot join. This keeps the experience safer and more comfortable for kids. Also, games with parental controls let adults set limits on playtime, communication, and purchases. Starting with games like “Minecraft” (in creative mode) or “Rocket League” (a fun car-soccer game) can be a good idea because they are easy to learn and popular among kids.

How can you start playing a game online with a friend?

First, decide which game both of you want to try. Ask your child or student what kind of game sounds fun, like building things, solving puzzles, or racing. Then, download or access the game on your computer, tablet, or gaming console. Create an account if needed, but use safe passwords that are not easy to guess and don’t share personal info.

Next, invite your friend to join the game. Many games let you add friends by username or a code. Teach kids to only add friends they know in real life or trusted friends from school. Once both players are connected, start a game together by choosing a “multiplayer” or “co-op” mode. You can practice by playing simple rounds where you work together or play a friendly match.

What are some easy games to try first with a friend?

Starting with easy, familiar games helps kids feel confident and have fun. Here are some kid-friendly game types to try:

• Creative building games: Games like “Minecraft” in creative mode let kids build houses, castles, or anything they imagine.
• Puzzle games: Games where you solve challenges together, like “Portal 2” or “Lego” games.
• Simple card or board games online: Digital versions of checkers, chess, or Uno.
• Drawing or guessing games: “Pictionary” style games where one draws and the other guesses.
• Racing games: Non-violent games like “Mario Kart” that let kids race cars or characters.

Choose games without chat or with kid-safe chat features to keep it safe. Let the child explain what they like about the game, so you know if it is fun and not frustrating.

How do you know if the game is safe and suitable for your child?

Check the game’s age rating and reviews from trusted sites like Common Sense Media. The game should have no violent or scary content and should let you control who talks to your child. Look for parental controls that allow you to limit chat or block strangers.

Also, watch your child’s response while playing. If they feel upset, scared, or uncomfortable, it might be a sign the game isn’t right. Make sure the game does not ask for personal information like full name, address, or phone number. If the game has chat, teach children not to share personal details or agree to meet anyone in person.

How can you encourage friendly and positive play during online games?

Encourage kids to be kind and respectful to their friends while playing. Remind them to use polite words like “please” and “thank you,” and to cheer for each other. If a player is winning, teach kids to celebrate without bragging and if they lose, to be a good sport.

You can set simple rules before starting, such as “no name-calling,” “help each other in the game,” or “take turns.” If the game allows chatting, monitor messages or use games with preset phrases. Positive communication helps make the game enjoyable and strengthens friendships.

What should you do if something goes wrong during an online game?

Sometimes, kids might meet someone who is unkind or share messages that make them uncomfortable. Teach kids to tell a grown-up right away if that happens. Most games have a “report” or “block” button to stop contact with that player.

Remind kids never to share personal information or agree to meet online friends in person without adult permission. If you see bullying or unsafe behavior, contact the game’s support team or use safety resources like StopBullying.gov. Keeping communication open with your child helps catch problems early.

How can parents or teachers support kids playing online games with friends?

Adults should help kids pick safe games, set up accounts, and check privacy settings. Playing together sometimes or watching the game can help adults understand what the child is doing and encourage safe habits.

Create a schedule for playtime to balance screen time with other activities. Talk regularly about online safety, kindness, and what to do if something feels wrong. Encourage children to share their favorite games and invite friends they trust.

What are some fun ways to keep playing with friends online beyond games?

Besides games, kids can do activities like drawing together on shared apps, watching videos and talking about them, or playing question games that spark fun conversations. These activities help keep friendships strong and safe.

Use platforms designed for kids with parental controls and no public chat. For example, playing a “Would You Rather?” game or creating stories together online can be a nice break from competitive games. These activities teach cooperation and creativity while maintaining safety.

Frequently asked questions

Can my child play games online without talking to strangers?

Yes. Many games offer private friend-only modes or disable chat features so kids can play safely without talking to strangers. Look for games with parental controls to block unknown users and monitor interactions.

What if my child wants to meet an online friend in person?

Meeting online friends in person can be risky. Always say no unless you know the friend well and arrange the meeting with an adult in a public, safe place. Teach kids to tell a trusted adult if someone asks to meet.

How do I find age-appropriate games for my child?

Check age ratings and reviews on trusted sites like Common Sense Media. Choose games designed for kids 8–12 that focus on fun, learning, and creativity without violent or scary content.

How do I help my child if they feel upset during an online game?

Listen carefully and let them share what happened. Encourage a break from the game and remind them to tell a grown-up if someone was unkind or unsafe. Support them in reporting or blocking bad behavior.

Are free online games safe for kids?

Some free games are safe, but others may have ads or chat features that aren’t child-friendly. Always check the game’s settings and supervise play. Use games with parental controls to keep kids safe while playing free games.